August 20, 2024

How to Turn Baby's Snooze into Serious Zzz's

Happy Tuesday, mamas! You know what they say about best-laid plans, right? Well, my moms' weekend away turned into an impromptu tri-state tour, complete with missed flights, a last-minute road trip, and a 6 a.m. homecoming. ✈️🚗

After missing our original flight out, all other flights out of NYC were grounded by a surprise storm (because, of course), which led us on a little adventure to New Haven in hopes of catching a third attempted flight. Five hours later—after nearly giving in to the lure of a Holiday Inn stay—we finally found a clear pocket in the storm to fly out. When we finally touched down, it was the next day, and my car was waiting for me at a totally different airport.

So, if you’ve ever fantasized about communal living, you're not alone—75% of last week's poll respondents said they were on board, and now I totally get it. At least with communal living, there's a built-in carpool!

  • Design Disasters: Interior Mistakes You Might Be Making

  • Building Body Confidence: Helping Kids Embrace Who They Are

  • Nap Hacks: How to Turn Baby's Snooze into Serious Zzz's

HOME DESIGN

Interior design no-nos.

Did you know that a few simple tweaks can totally transform your living space? Interior design isn’t just about making things look pretty; it’s about creating a space that feels just right. But, let’s be honest—most of us have made at least one design faux pas. Here’s a mix of common mistakes and simple fixes to elevate your home:

  1. The Rug Rut
    Choosing a rug that's too small is a classic mistake. A good rule of thumb? Ensure that the front legs of your furniture are on the rug, and smaller pieces like coffee tables should be fully on it. It anchors the room and ties everything together.

  2. Wall-Hugging Furniture
    Pushing all your furniture against the walls might seem like it opens up space, but it actually does the opposite. Pull your furniture away from the walls to create better flow and consider adding a console table behind the sofa for some extra depth.

  3. Curtain Confusion
    Hanging curtains too low can make your ceilings feel shorter. Instead, hang your curtain rods closer to the ceiling and extend them beyond the window frame to create the illusion of height and width. 

  4. The Matchy-Matchy Trap
    While it’s tempting to buy everything in a matching set, a room that looks collected over time is far more interesting. Mix and match textures, tones, and materials to add depth and personality.

  5. Plant Parenting Fails
    If you don’t have a green thumb, stick to faux plants. There’s nothing worse than a room full of sad, drooping greenery. Faux plants add a fresh touch without the upkeep.

  6. Outdated Hardware
    Old cabinet knobs and handles can make a space feel tired. Swapping them out for something new and modern can give your room an instant facelift.

  7. Bad Lighting
    Relying solely on overhead lighting? It’s time to diversify. Layer your lighting with floor lamps, table lamps, and sconces to create a warm and inviting atmosphere. Good lighting is key to setting the mood in any room.

These easy fixes can make a big difference in your space. Remember, your home should reflect you—don’t be afraid to make it your own! 🛋️

PARENTING

Building body confidence.

Research shows that children as young as five start talking about body issues. So, how can we set the stage for a healthy body image before they even hit kindergarten? 

Start Early with Simple Lessons
By age one, kids begin recognizing their bodies. Encourage them to point out and name body parts—it’s a small but important step. Picture standing in front of a mirror with your little one and saying, “Where are your ears?” followed by, “Your ears are amazing—they help you hear!” And don’t shy away from using proper names for body parts. Avoiding nicknames helps remove any sense of embarrassment early on.

Focus on Health, Not Weight
As your child grows, focus on health and wellness rather than weight or appearance. Skip the food rules and instead model a balanced diet yourself. 🥗 Show them that all food groups have a place at the table. This teaches kids that their bodies deserve nourishment and that food isn’t just about looks—it's about fueling their lives.

Make Exercise Fun
Encourage your kids to find activities they genuinely enjoy. Whether it’s dancing around the living room, playing soccer, or just running in the yard, the goal is to show them that exercise is fun, not a chore. 🏃‍♂️

Have Positive Conversations About Food
Mealtime shouldn’t be a battlefield. Instead, make it a time for positive discussions about why certain foods are good for us. For example, explain how vegetables give us energy and help us grow strong.

Correct Misinformation and Set an Example
Teach your children that all bodies are good bodies. This helps them resist pressure to meet unattainable ideals. Remember, your attitude toward your body sets the tone. Love yourself, and your child will learn to do the same. 💖

SNIPPETS

Pumping extends breastfeeding duration, new study reveals. Research from Yale School of Medicine shows that mothers who use pumps tend to breastfeed for about five months longer than those who don't. The study analyzed data from nearly 20,000 lactating individuals, highlighting the significant impact of pump use since the Affordable Care Act mandated insurance coverage for pumps in 2012.

Taking a five-second break can diffuse arguments between couples. A study from the University of St Andrews found that a short, five-second pause can be as effective as longer breaks in preventing arguments from escalating. The research suggests that the act of taking a break, rather than its length, is key to reducing conflict.

Celia Cruz becomes the first Afro-Latina on U.S. currency. The iconic Cuban singer will be featured on a 2024 quarter as part of the American Women Quarters Program. Cruz is honored alongside other trailblazing women, celebrating her legacy as "The Queen of Salsa."

CHILDREN

Nap hacks.

Nap time struggles often stem from sleep pressure, the biological need for sleep that builds the longer we're awake. For babies, enhancing sleep pressure involves a few key strategies:

  • Light and Dark: Melatonin, the sleep hormone, is only released in darkness. Keeping your baby’s nap space dark helps boost sleep pressure.

  • Wake Windows: Timing is crucial. Ensure your baby isn’t awake too long or too short of a period. Watch for signs of tiredness like yawning to determine the right nap time.

  • Sleep Environment: A calm, cool, and dark room is essential. Minimize distractions to create the best conditions for napping.

Avoid common mistakes like letting your baby nap too long, skipping naps, or having inconsistent nap environments. Addressing sleep associations, such as needing to be rocked or fed, can also improve nap quality. With these tips, you can help your baby enjoy more restful naps.

Mark Zuckerberg is taking "wife appreciation" to new heightsliterally. The Facebook founder unveiled a 7-foot statue of his wife, Priscilla Chan, complete with a green finish and silver cloak, claiming to revive the Roman tradition of immortalizing one’s spouse in sculpture. Whether it’s seen as romantic or a bit much, it's definitely a bold move!

DID YOU KNOW? that before 1920, it was actually legal to send children through the mail? Back when postage was cheaper than train tickets, some parents opted to mail their kids to relatives, with one couple even sending their eight-month-old baby to his grandparents for just 15 cents. Newspapers at the time ran quirky headlines like “Baby by Parcel Post,” making this one of the most bizarre things ever shipped. 📦

🍪🥤 A match made in snack heaven. Oreo and Coca-Cola join forces for fizzy cookies and chocolate soda.

🚫💊 Parents, beware! What you don’t know about student drug use could surprise you.

🎶👶Let’s sing! Ms. Rachel & Sesame Street are teaming up for a new sing-along series.

🎨🛌 Art that dreams are made of. Hanna Andersson’s new colorable pajamas let kids wear their creativity to bed.

🚶‍♂️🌿 Walking the future. Why America’s first car-free community might be the next big thing.

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