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February 25, 2025

February 25, 2025

Millennial moms, another trend just rose from the dead. First, it was butterfly clips. Then, cargo pants. Now, concealer lips are back—and yes, we’re just as confused as you are. The foundation-coated, borderline-soulless lip look we all left in the early 2000s is making the rounds on TikTok, because of course it is. If history has taught us anything, it’s that no trend stays buried forever… so what’s next? Side bangs? Layered tank tops? Someone, please hide the chunky belts.

The Art of Letting Go: Because That Grudge Is Not Paying Rent
Middle school: Where the drama is big and the confidence is shaky—here’s how to help.
DIY Hair Dye? Read This First.

RELATIONSHIPS

Drop the grudge, not your sanity.

You know the one. The grudge that’s been hanging around your head like an uninvited guest, eating up your energy while the person who wronged you goes about their life, blissfully unaware. Maybe it’s a mom friend who made a passive-aggressive comment at the last playdate, or a family member who conveniently forgets to text you back but somehow always remembers when they need a favor.

Holding onto resentment can feel like a form of justice—like keeping score will somehow balance the scales. But in reality, the only person carrying the weight is you. Experts say that harboring a grudge doesn’t hold the other person accountable; it just keeps you trapped in a loop of stress and frustration.

So how do you actually let go without feeling like you’re just rolling over?

Feel your feelings (but don’t let them drive the car). Acknowledge the hurt—don’t shove it down. Name it, process it, but don’t let it set up camp in your brain.
Distract, don’t dwell. When the resentment spiral kicks in, channel your energy into something productive—exercise, cleaning, journaling, or even binge-watching that show that makes you laugh.
Closure, your way. Whether it’s writing an unsent letter or having an actual conversation, sometimes putting thoughts into words can help release the tension.
Set boundaries, not just feelings. Moving on doesn’t mean forgetting—it means protecting your peace. Maybe that means limiting interactions or hitting the “mute” button (literally and figuratively).

Bottom line: Letting go isn’t about excusing bad behavior—it’s about freeing up space in your mind for things (and people) that actually deserve it.

PARENTING

Middle school decoded.

Your tween walks in the door, slams their backpack down, and lets out a dramatic sigh. One minute, they’re venting about a friendship betrayal. The next, they’re convinced they’ll never understand pre-algebra. Welcome to middle school—where emotions run high, friendships are fickle, and self-confidence takes a daily beating.

So how do you help your tween survive (and maybe even thrive) during these years? Here’s your survival guide:

Friendships Will Change—And That’s Normal. Statistically speaking, that BFF necklace they swapped in 5th grade may not last until high school. Tweens are still figuring out who they are, which means friendships shift. Remind them that it’s not personal—it’s just part of growing up.
Confidence Is a Muscle—Help Them Strengthen It. Whether it’s trying out for the soccer team, joining the school play, or introducing themselves to someone new, middle school is full of intimidating firsts. Encourage them to push through the awkwardness, reminding them that everyone else feels just as unsure.
Give Them the Right Tools—Not Just Advice. Role-play tough conversations (yes, really), help them craft a response to that lunchroom line-cutter, and brainstorm ways to handle social drama. The more they practice, the more prepared they’ll feel.
Effort Over Outcome. If they bomb a test, don’t make the team, or get ghosted by a friend, focus on what they learned from the experience. Resilience comes from trying, failing, and trying again.
Be Their Safe Space. Sometimes, they don’t need a lecture—they just need snacks and silence. Keep the fridge stocked, give them space to decompress, and make sure they know they can talk to you about anything.

Middle school isn’t easy, but with your support, they’ll make it through—questionable fashion choices and all.

DID YOU KNOW? LEGO is short for the Danish phrase leg godt, which means “play well.” But the journey to becoming the world’s favorite building toy wasn’t all fun and games. From devastating factory fires to near bankruptcy, LEGO’s backstory is a wild ride.

AND ALSO

Dye hard.

Salon trips are expensive, and sometimes you just don’t have the time. Enter: at-home hair dye. But before you grab that $15 box color, let’s talk damage control.

First up, quality matters—opt for professional-grade dye with low (or no) ammonia and conditioning agents to keep your hair from looking like a straw hat. Next, get the right tools—those flimsy brushes in box kits won’t cut it. Invest in a professional brush and bowl for even application.

Thinking of skipping the strand test? Don’t. It’s your safety net against unexpected shades (hello, accidental orange) and allergic reactions. And when it’s go-time, section your hair for even coverage, use a color barrier to protect your skin, and let your hair process undisturbed—no messy buns!

Finally, hydrate, hydrate, hydrate. A nourishing hair mask post-dye is your best friend. Your DIY dye job just got an upgrade.

Parenting in 2025 is all about AI, sustainability, and balance. From AI-powered parenting tools to eco-friendly baby gear, this year’s trends are redefining modern parenthood. Experts predict a bigger focus on holistic health, flexible work setups, and tech-driven solutions to make life easier. No major overhauls needed—just small shifts to keep up with the future of raising kids.

SNIPPETS

Nike teams up with Skims for activewear – Nike and Kim Kardashian’s Skims are launching NikeSKIMS, a new activewear line aimed at expanding Nike’s appeal to women and competing with brands like Lululemon. The collection, featuring apparel, footwear, and accessories, debuts this spring with a global rollout in 2026.

Screen time linked to manic symptoms in preteens – A new study finds that excessive screen use in 10–11-year-olds is associated with a higher risk of developing manic symptoms two years later. Activities like social media, gaming, and texting were linked to behaviors such as racing thoughts, impulsivity, and decreased need for sleep, key features of bipolar-spectrum disorders.

True crime cruise sets sail in 2026 – Fans of true crime can solve mysteries at sea with podcast hosts and “America’s Most Wanted” star John Walsh. The four-night cruise, departing from Miami in January 2026, will feature murder mystery events, crime-solving workshops, and panel discussions.

April showers are coming, and soggy socks are not the vibe. Here are five rain boots that’ll keep your feet dry and your style on point:

☔ Hunter Women's Original Short Rain Boot – A classic for a reason. These boots are built to last, feature solid traction, and have an adjustable buckle for a snug fit. An investment, but one that’ll outlive many storms.

👢 Xtratuf Women's Ankle Deck Boot – Fully rubber, fully waterproof, and available in fun colors. Bonus: easy pull-on tabs make slipping them on and off a breeze.

💸 Asgard Chelsea Ankle Rain Boots – Budget-friendly but sturdy. Lightweight, waterproof, and lined for a little extra warmth.

💦 Torrent Chelsea Waterproof Rain Boot – Sperry knows how to do wet weather right. These boots are sleek, comfy, and won’t break the bank.

✨ SOREL Women's Joan Now Chelsea Boot – A stylish rain boot with a 2-inch heel for an extra boost (literally). Higher coverage means extra puddle protection.

Time to splash around—in style.